Por que cambiamos?

Amenudo se da el caso de que personas las cuales tratamos dia tras dia de repente cambian, y no sabes la razon del cambio, pero notas la diferencia en su manera de ser ahora, y la manera en que eran antes; Personas a las cuales crees que no has dañado en ningun aspecto. Que por ningun motivo aparente de repente cambiaron...

Estos cambios aveces se deben situaciones que estas personas estan viviendo, osea cosas por las cuales estan pasando, y aveces tu no la sabes. Ya sea por que no sea tan abierta contigo como para contarte, o por que hayan desidido mantener silencion sobre su situacion. En ocasiones los juzgamos a la lijera sin en verdad saber los problemas que los agovian, en esas situaciones, si en verdad los apreciamos; Debemos de siempre estar ahi para ellas, desmostrarles que aunque ellos talvez no sientan confianza suficiente para contarte las cosas que les pasan, tu estas ahi, dispuesto a escucharlas si es que un dia se deciden a contarte el problema que las agovian. Brindarle apoyo en todos los sentidos y hazle siempre saber que no por su tan repentino cambio tu las veras de manera diferente,ya que los seres humanos debemos amarnos y aceptarnos los unos a los otros con nuestras virtudes y defectos, claro esto es cuando existe cariño,aprecio, amistad ect.

Aceptemos esas personas sea cual sea la situacion algun dia valoraran el hecho que nunca le distes las espalda, por mas drastico que fuera su cambio...

Y Recuerda y siempre ten presente que; No tenemos que cambiar de amigos, sino aceptar que los amigos cambian.


Quiero dedicar este escrito a alguien que aprecio y quiero muchisimo... Mi manita, y ademas felicitarla por incusionar en el mundo de los Blogs.


Escrito y puublicado por:CAMINANTE

AMIGO...

No se A quien de ustedes le a pasado lo siguiente, por ejemplo en mi caso yo soy muy bueno tratando de resolver los problemas de los demas pero cuando lo problemas son mios aveces no se como resolverlos,
tenemos muchas amistades pero talvez pocas personas a la cual recurrir.
Por eso es siempre bueno contar con buenos amigos, amigos a los cuales puedas recurrir. Recientemente me di cuenta que yo si tengo esa clase de de amigos, de esos que te dan una mano cuando lo nesecitas, te dan un consejo y te ayudan desinterasadamente.
Como dijo un sabio alguna vez "La amistad es un comercio desinteresado entre semejantes" siempre he dicho que una de las alegrias de la amistad es saber en quien confiar...
Ya que La amistad duplica las alegrias y divide las angustias por la mitad,amigo es el que en la prosperidad acude al ser llamado y en la adversidad sin serlo.

Tengo muchos amigos pero este post quiero dedicarlo a una persona que cuando la nesecite estuvo ahi para escucharme y me brindo su ayuda desinterasadamente, quiero dedicar este post a mi AMIGA Lisandra mejor conocida como Tia Lily GRACIAS.

How important is friendship in our lives...

Tonight while watching a movie with Tamara, we started to talk about friends and what friends mean to us. We decided to write a post about friendship and how important friendships are in our lives.

Before we can figure that out, we first need to figure out what exactly is a "Friend" ?

The word "friend" is actually harder to explain than I thought it would be. According to the dictionary, a friend is "a person who knows and likes another, a person who favours and supports a person who belongs to the same side or group". Well judging by that definition, everyone in the world must have hundreds of friends, if not more, right ? Wrong. There is way more to being a friend than just liking someone or supporting someone.

A friend is someone who knows all about you and likes you anyway. Being a friend means more than recognizing that no one is perfect, it means accepting it. A true friend is someone who knows that you won't always agree about everything, and doesn't hold it against you when you have a difference of opinion. Someone who isn't judgmental and is there to listen to you when you need it, no matter the subject. Someone you can trust with your life and your deepest, darkest secrets. Someone who will never let you down. Someone you can always rely on. A friend is someone who can keep you grounded and focused. Someone who can help you see through your obstacles. Someone to offer a shoulder to cry on when life gets rough. Someone to laugh and to cry with. Someone to lean on, through both the good and the bad. Someone you can be yourself around no matter how silly you want to be, and they won't make fun of you, they'll be laughing with you, and acting silly themselves. Someone you can sit silently beside, without conversation, but yet there is no boredom.
A friend is someone you choose wisely, because a friend is a reflection of yourself. Someone to compliment your own self, Someone who indicates who you are as a person.

Too many people get the meaning of a friend confused with that of an acquaintance. People are quick to call almost every person they share a conversation with a friend when that is not the case. For example, someone you work with is not exactly considered a friend, but yet, many people introduce their co-workers to other friends as friends. Many will say that it is because it is easier to just say friend, but it is really because not everyone knows the true meaning of friends.

An acquaintance is someone that you know enough to no longer consider them a stranger, but yet they are not close enough to you for you to call them a friend. That doesn't mean that acquaintances can not eventually become friends, but there is a fine line between the two because not every acquaintance will be special enough to call a friend.

And always have in mind that a friend is someone who knows the song in your heart and can sing it back to you when you have forgotten the words...


written and paosted by: Caminante